Welcome to Linda Ikeji's Blog

Welcome to Linda Ikeji's Blog


Photos from Abba Atiku Abubakar's wedding in Adamawa yesterday

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 11:22 AM PDT

Abba and Mariana Atiku Abubakar did the second leg of their wedding yesterday in Jada Village in Adamawa State yesterday. Continue to see more photos...




Photos: Meet another Nigerian Transgender, Lady Mandy

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 10:53 AM PDT

Former popular gay Nigerian man Okwudili is now living in Canada as a woman. Okwudili left Nigeria many years back for Canada where he had a transgender surgery to become a woman. She's now known as Lady Candy in Toronto, Canada where she currently resides and is a registered nurse at Sick Kids Hospital. Continue to see more photos of fierce Ms Candy...




Lupita's Nyong'o steps out in Grace Jones' inspired haircut

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 10:18 AM PDT

The Oscar winner attended the GLAAD Media Awards at the Beverly Hilton in Los Angeles last night rocking a masculine Grace Jones inspired flat top and a shiny monochrome dress. That hair... 

FYI: Lupita is wearing an Antonio Berardi dress, Christian Louboutin shoes, a Judith Leiber clutch, a Leroy's Place Grace Jones ring, a Joan Hornig ring, and EF Collection earrings.

Introducing FanRoyale Premium Ice Cream

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 10:16 AM PDT

Discover a whole new way to pamper yourself, enjoy FanRoyale Premium Ice Cream proudly produced by Fan Milk Nigeria Plc.


A blend of the smoothest of cream and the richest of flavours, FanRoyale is available in 3 distinct flavours namely:
Vanilla Strawberry Stripping – a Vanilla flavored Ice Cream with Strippings of Strawberry flavour
Cappuccino Chocolate Chip – a Cappuccino flavored Ice Cream with Chocolate Chips
Rum N' Raisins – a unique blend of Vanilla Ice Cream, Rum (0.15% alcohol content) and Raisins Continue...
 


The proudly Nigerian and first-of-its-kind indigenous Premium Ice Cream product - poised to be a competing brand to the likes of Blue Bunny and other similarly imported Ice Cream products, was officially unveiled by the staff of Fan Milk Nigeria Plc on Friday, 11th April, 2014 at a cozy launch event in that held in Ikeja, GRA, Lagos.

FanRoyale Ice Cream is available for purchase in major supermarkets and stores in Nigeria and several Experiential Launch activities have been scheduled to specially welcome Ice Cream lovers to the delicious experience of FanRoyale.

Lovers of Ice Cream - and its indulgent nature, should watch out for the 'Royale Lounge' popping up in select locations in Lagos, Port Harcourt and Abuja where they will be exclusively pampered by the FanRoyale brand. The Royale Lounge would make its first appearance in Ikeja City Mall, Lagos on the 18thof April (Good Friday) 2014. Following appearances of the Royale Lounge would be at Everyday Emporium, Port Harcourt on the 26th of April, SIlverbird Galleria, Victoria Island, Lagos on the 1st of May and a final appearance at the Grand Towers Mall, Abuja on the 4th of May 2014.

Ice Cream lovers would be pampered like never before at the Royale Lounge and it promises to be a very exciting and indulgent experience. The Royale Lounge tour and its activities can be followed using the '#RoyaleTreatement' hashtag on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram and also by following and liking the Fan Milk Nigeria Plc Social Media pages.






Dear LIB readers: Should I arrest my blackmailers or pay them?

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 05:52 AM PDT

From a female LIB reader
I am a 54 year old woman who for the first time in my adult life got into a physical fight with a 21 year old girl. She slapped, kicked and even tore my blouse in front of my pregnant daughter. I am writing this letter with the consent of my daughter. 
I am a lecturer in a Christian university here in the east and I go to Lagos every weekend to see my family. Been married for over 30yrs and I have daughter. 
Ok, My daughter phoned me one day and told me about this 21 year old girl  her father has rented a house  and have bought her car for. She also said she suspected they have a baby together  because she checked this girl on Internet and she puts pictures of a baby up. Continue...
So after further investigation we found out where she lived and one good sunday morning after church we went there. I saw her, very pretty  young girl. She even looked younger than 21. Calmly  I started to talk to her, asking her questions like my own daughter and she answered respectfully.  She was calm until her mother came out and ask who we were.

And then you know daughters now. My daughter challenged the woman Before we knew what was happening,  this little girl just changed , as if she was charmed and started to curse my daughter She and my daughter started exchanging words and my daughter called her son a bastard. Dat was all. This girl rushed gave my 30 year old pregnant daughter a slap she ll never forget in a hurry. 
Being a mother I tried to defend my daughter who has started to shout. My intension wasn't to fight . But I couldn't help when I realized we were being attacked. This girl slapped me n tore my blouse, while  her brother or boyfriend was busy filming everything  with his phone. 

Since then someone has been blackmailing me with the video of me fighting with my breasts hanging out, threatened to put it online if I don't pay certain amount. The question is should I pay or just face the humiliation. I know my job is on the line. My husband that caused all these is away in the US but has given me his consent to arrest her and her friends. 
I'm soon to be a grand mother. Should I arrest these people and risk everything or just pay and leave the rest to God. 
Btw Linda, u are doing a nice job. Well done my dear. God bless u all as u help us. Amen

On Nigeria's Rebased Economy - By Reno Omokri

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 05:51 AM PDT

An article by Reno Omokri, Special Assistant on New Media to President Jonathan
The attempts by some individuals to deemphasize the recent rebasing of the Nigerian economy as something that should not be celebrated is most unfortunate as this is a feat that adds value to every Nigerian irrespective of religion, region or political persuasion.
President Jonathan once said "I am loyal to Nigeria's economy. I don't have accounts or property abroad. All my children live and school in Nigeria".
If any of his critics can make that same boast, let him be the first one to criticize the rebasing of Nigeria's economy. Continue...

Never mind that a Chief Economist of the World Bank, Francisco Ferreira, has said that the rebasing "had exposed sectors where Nigeria's economy was recording dynamic growth, and therefore would be areas of attraction for investment inflows", unpatriotic politicians would want us to jettison this expert opinion for their negative inexpert opinion.

The thing that they fail to understand is that any Nigerian who discredits the rebasing of Nigeria's economy is discrediting himself. It was Nigeria's value that was rebased not the government's value.

But why should I even be surprised? Many of those who have been debased politically would not want Nigeria to be rebased economically. It is a classic case of misery wanting company. 

There is really very little you can do for such folk other than prescribe psychiatric therapy for the management of their inferiority complex because I am not sure that anything is as damaging to their reputation as their attempt to spite their country even as they think they are spitting its leaders.

Nations, institutions and individuals are more likely to perform at their best if you commend them when they do well. 

Unfortunately, many of these people will ignore rather than reward good behavior and performance and find ways to spin good news into bad in order to condemn.

To these people, I would recommend a principle I use in raising my kids. I praise them publicly and scold them privately ensuring that they grow up having a sense of personal value even as they adjust their behavior.

The reason I do this is because I have noticed from experience that when a child is scolded publicly, bystanders remember the negative thing the child did and they never forget it even when the child has matured beyond that deficiency and even when you as a parent have forgotten it. People tend to look on themselves and their children with rose colored glasses and on others with magnifying glasses.

Similarly, when we condemn Nigeria to the outside world on Traditional and New Media platforms, that condemnation sticks to the minds of foreigners and the foreign media and they don't see Nigeria as government and opposition, they just see Nigeria.  

Nigerians are irrevocably tied to the value of Nigeria.

And it is obvious that these nay sayers are confused because in one breath they claim that the rebasing of our economy is fiction while in another they claim that our economic growth is not a result of any deliberate government policy.

Since the World Bank itself as well as the Economist Magazine,  the Financial Times and the New York Times have acknowledged that the rebasing is real, I will now respond to the desperate allegation that no deliberate policy of government is responsible for the economic growth seen in the rebasing.

Now let's get technical. 

When Forbes named the Nigerian Minister of Agriculture,  Dr. Akinwumi Adesina as its African Person of the Year 2013, it was in recognition of his efforts of reducing Nigeria's food import bill by $6 billion annually. 

This $6 billion which used to go overseas now circulates within Nigeria adding to our Gross Domestic Product and lubricating other sectors of our economy. 

Nigeria is  now near self sufficient in rice, wheat and poultry production as a result of the deliberate action of the government in eliminating the corruption in the fertilizer procurement and distribution system, free distribution of high yield seedlings to farmers and extension of agricultural loans to small and medium scale farmers. 

That agriculture is now big business in Nigeria was recently demonstrated when D'Banj, one of Nigeria's biggest pop stars, bought  into the agriculture business with the launch of 'Koko Gari'.

Farmers, are making more money and this did not happen by chance. It is a deliberate policy of the Federal Government and it is leading to one of the greatest wealth transfers in Nigeria's history.

Another deliberate policy that is ensuring wealth transfer is the liberalization and privatization policy of the Federal Government. For example, the recent privatization of the Power Holding Company of Nigeria, PHCN, achieved two objectives.

The first objective is wealth repatriation. Nigerians who had billions of dollars sitting idle in their foreign accounts repatriated those funds back to Nigeria to purchase the Transmission and Distribution companies that were sold ensuring that those billions now circulate within Nigeria adding to our Gross Domestic Product.      

The second objective achieved is that government funds which used to be budgeted annually to those firms are now freed up since they have been sold and can now be spent on other priority sectors of the economy further expanding our GDP.

Moreover, the Backward Integration Policy on cement by the Federal Government has ensured that Nigeria has moved from being a net importer of cement to a net exporter of the product. 

Billions of dollars that were used to import cement before 2009 are now retained in Nigeria as well as billions from the sale of Nigerian cement abroad.

These are deliberate policies for which the government should be applauded for.

They are the basic principles of elementary economics that some opposition politicians can not grasp, yet they want to dislodge President Jonathan and return Nigeria back to the status quo. God forbid!  

Another example of a deliberate policy contributing to the expansion of Nigeria's GDP is the Local Content Bill signed into law by President Jonathan on April 25, 2010.

As a direct consequence of this law, the oil majors have been forced to reserve for Nigerian engineers and technicians jobs that had hitherto been the reserve of expatriates workers. 

They have also been mandated to award contracts to Nigerian firms that would have gone to foreign companies prior to the signing of the Local Content Law. 

For example, as a direct consequence of this law, Royal Dutch Shell PLC awarded a 7.8 billion-naira ($49 million) natural-gas pipeline contract to a local manufacturer, S.C.C. Nigeria Ltd. This is the first time such has been awarded to a Nigerian company.

Also, Mobil Producing Nigeria unlimited, as a direct result of the Local Content Law, awarded a multi million dollar contract to Niger Dock Nigeria PLC to build wellhead platforms. This is the first time such a contract has been awarded to a Nigerian firm.

The effect of the Local Content Law is that hundreds of millions of dollars that would have hitherto left Nigeria is now retained in Nigeria swelling our GDP. 

Years ago, South Africa was the number one recipient of Foreign Direct Investment in Africa but she has since been overtaken by Nigeria under President Jonathan which according to the  United Nations Conference on Trade and Development (UNCTAD) has been the number one recipient of FDI in Africa for the past two years.

Can such a feat happen by accident? 

Since the advent of the Jonathan administration, the education sector has consistently had the highest sectoral allocation in the Federal Budget. 

Nigerians now have access to education in record numbers (though more still needs to be done). 

Twelve new universities have been built in fulfillment of what President Jonathan said that "crude oil is not out "Black Gold". The real "Black Gold" of Nigeria are her people and they can grow in value via education".

This is why Nigerians pay very affordable tuition fees at Federal Universities when compared to the exorbitant fees charged by state universities in the opposition controlled APC states.

How sad that those who enjoyed free education have now become purveyors of expensive education.

It is this focus on education and industry that has increased the capacity of the average Nigerian for enterprise and thrift which has resulted in the expansion of our economy.

The President's daughter recently got married to her hearth throb and everything about the marriage was done in Nigeria. It is such patriotic actions of Nigerians spending their money in Nigeria that makes Nigeria grow. 

But of course, people who travel abroad to celebrate even their birthdays will not know that our economy is expanding. 

How could they, when their children, accounts, property and minds are overseas. It then become easy for them to overlook what is happening in Nigeria. 
 
Reno,

Guess who?

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 05:29 AM PDT

A very important Nigerian is in this old pic. Can you spot him?

Regina Askia was in Nigeria; talks about why she came home..

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 05:26 AM PDT

Former beauty queen and actress Regina Askia Williams was in Nigeria last week. She has since returned to the US where she lives with her husband and kids. She took to her Facebook page today to talk about why she came home, plus family and political issues. Continue to read what she wrote...




What is wrong with this picture?

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 05:07 AM PDT

It's not the 'Live' instead of 'Leave'..that's too obvious...there's something else crazily wrong here..lol.

About the pic; a group of women last week held a peaceful protest in front of the NNPC HQ along Herbert Macaulay way in Abuja. They were expressing their support for embattled Minister of Petroleum Resources, Dieziani Alison-Madueke, who is currently involved in private jet scandal

Music video director, Sesan, shoots video for US rapper French Montana

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 05:00 AM PDT

Top Nigerian film/music video director Sesan Ogunro has gone international. He's currently directing the video for one of French Montana's yet to be released songs in Los Angeles, California. He's pictured above on set with French Montana, who is reportedly dating Khloe Kardashian. Great that a Nigerian talent is being recognized and is now spreading worldwide. Continue to see more photos...


135 civilians killed in Boko Haram attacks since Wednesday

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 04:53 AM PDT

According to a report by the BBC, Boko Haram gunmen killed at least 135 civilians in three separate attacks in the North since Wednesday.

This was made known by Senator Ahmed Zannah, who said the attackers first target was a teacher training college in the town of Dikwa, where they killed five people, abducted several women, then burnt down the college library before escaping.

Then the militants attacked two villages near the border with Cameroon killing a further 130 people. The senator said the attacks took place on Wednesday and Thursday.

According to Amnesty International, at least 1,500 people, half of them civilians, have been killed in the north in 2014 alone.

Photos: Actress Anita Joseph shares make-up free photos

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 04:53 AM PDT

The actress shared the pics on her Facebook page. Bold move...not everyone is confident enough to do this...

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Posted: 13 Apr 2014 04:15 AM PDT

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My crashed marriage, the true story - Femi Kuti

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 03:39 AM PDT

Afrobeat king, Femi Kuti, has once again opened up on his crashed marriage. The musician, who is currently in Paris, France where he is due to perform at the biggest African music festival in Europe, went down memory lane and recalled how he met and married Funke, his ex-wife and mother of his first son, Made. Read the interview granted exclusively to Sunday Sun below...
Because of Made, maybe you and Funke see to talk about common things but we are shocked to see her sitting next to you at 'Femi Segun's burial?
She is the mother of my child and we are very friendly, we even call each other. At least, what I manage to do is not to let the breakup affect Made first of all, and our relationship. Human beings must fight. There must be misunderstanding sometimes. It is now left to us if we are matured enough to overcome these problems. To some people, breakup is so bitter that they end up hating each other. I manage to take my hatred and throw it away, and still respect her as a human being and the mother of my son, and most importantly for the love of my son who needs his mother. Continue...


If she too understands that he needs his father then we must get rid of our misunderstanding. He was the one at the church who said 'please sit beside my mother'; I had to oblige him. I could have refused because I went with my girlfriend, so I told my girlfriend not to be annoyed and she understood.

Does it mean you and Funke may come back as husband and wife?
I doubt it. But you never know. You never know what God has in plan for you. What if you say never and something just happens? If they told me she would leave my house one day, I would have said it is impossible. So, if she comes back one day, you never know what can happen. One sickness can hook you down and she might be the person by your bedside, what would happen? I don't pray for it but you never know what God has in plan for you. So, I am not the one that tempts fate. Right now, I am content, I am happy, we are friendly and my children are also happy.

Tell me your greatest memory of Funke?
Are you trying to bring us back because this question is mischievous (laughs). There are many great memories of her. I can't say one or two because it is not possible to throw 10 years away. There are great, good and bad memories. All are memories.

How did you meet Funke?
I met her at a restaurant where I was playing jazz, at a place called '44' in Ikoyi. She came with my cousin, Funmi Ransome-Kuti, they were in UNILAG together. She was so beautiful and she was looking at me, so I knew she likes me. So, I told my cousin to introduce me to her. That's how we met.

How did you eventually propose to her?
I didn't propose; one day, I just told her that 'from today, we are boyfriend and girlfriend'. She said, 'ha ha, what kind of love is this?' I said, 'when we have been calling ourselves everyday, are we misleading ourselves? And it was on a Christmas Eve. I said to her 'from today you are my girlfriend, if you have a boyfriend, get rid of him now because I must not see him when I get to your house' and she laughed. That was how we started.

I am sure you don't want to pull that off your mind so soon?
It is off. Like I said, I have a new life. I am staying with two of the mothers of my children; we all stay in the same house. I have a very good family. They are content, but they respect Funke. If Funke comes, they will excuse us. They are very respectful of her. Don't forget we are in Africa; this is the way we grew up, so if she comes around they give her the respect. If I go to the church and she is there, if I say 'please I have to sit with her', they will accord her the respect. And I am sure she has her life. Can we ever get together? I can never say no, because something can happen that may be for good or bad and we'll be together again.

Never say never! If you ask if I am happy right now, I am very happy not just with my relationship, I am also very happy with my children who are progressing, which is really my priority. At 52, I have experienced a lot. If I die today, I cannot complain in heaven that I did not enjoy my life. My biggest challenge is to ensure my children have a good life. I want the children to grow up very stable and that requires a lot of sacrifice on my part. I cannot use my selfish, jealous or whatever interest to disrupt their future, which is the same attitude I have with Made. He is doing very well. He is playing piano well. And probably if I use his mother's problem as an obstacle in his life, it might just be worrying him. And you never know why children have psychological problems, but it is the parents' duty to always protect their children. 'Nobody send us message; we slept with each other, we born pikin, you now want to give the pikin problem.' I don't indulge in that. Since there is a child involved, I try my best to keep my reservations to myself by just facing the truth.
You don't believe in monogamy?
Yes. I grew up in a polygamous home. I grew up wanting to be like my father. I grew up wanting to have many women; that was my training. I will not tell you it is right or wrong. You see my son, he believes in monogamy. He has one girlfriend that he has been following for many years, and they want to get married. I don't pray for them to breakup. If they want to even get married in the church, I will not stop him. Whatever he wants to do I will not use my own life to rule, direct or control my children. They must have the liberty to choose because if they fail or succeed, they have to understand it is their life. I can always be a good father. I will have to teach them how to take good decisions because I love them.

I am not going to discourage my son by saying 'what if she breaks your heart, so get ready for heartbreak', because I don't pray for it. I can only support him. If he is successful and even if he breaks up with this girl, he might still go for another person. But for whatever reason, this is the life he has chosen for himself and I love it that he is happy. Because of the way I was brought up, there is no way I can be faithful to a woman. I will not even try it. I wasn't trained to do so. I didn't grow up with that attitude. I grew up in the real house of Kalakuta where there were women and I loved it. So, I wanted the same thing for myself. Now, I don't have the life of Kalakuta but I know that I can't leave that dream and say I want to be faithful to one woman. I will rather be by myself; truth, I love my freedom. I don't love the part that I owe anybody anything. Even the people with me know that I love my freedom. I like to sleep when I want to sleep, if I want to go out I love to enter my car and go on my own; I love my independence. I was brought up with total independence.

Did you give Funke a ring, that 'with this I thee wed'? 
No, she bought the ring.
And you put it in her finger?
Yes, in the registry.
That makes you a monogamist so you cannot marry another wife under the Nigerian law?
I am not a monogamist because we are divorced.

It looks like you sacrificed all when Funke was with you?
No, I didn't. When we got married she was pregnant and I knew it was a boy. I didn't know how I knew but I just knew. I told her 'we will get married, but I will never be faithful to you'. She knew one of my dancers then was my girlfriend. I have been dating her long before I met Funke.. Funke's mother and I are not good friends. When she (Funke's mother) came back into her life, we started having problems. I don't know if that is part of the problem or if it is Funke who is bored with the marriage or her friends were talking to her, whatever the reason, I tried my best to bring her back. I tried to even change my ways. Many things went on, those that are close to me know that I went out of my way, when I saw that I was wasting too much energy, I had to relax. Funke and I didn't talk for a long time. It took us years to understand that there is a son in our midst. I didn't want to open the can of worms because we have settled all these. It is something that we have left behind. I have forgiven her and I will not tell you that I was totally right, but was I sincere in my marriage? Yes be rest assured that I was. I wasn't doing anything that she wasn't warned of before. That I won't have girlfriends? She knew that I was a very humble polygamist. I tried to be as discreet as possible but you know the more you are getting popular, the more people are taking your tales to your wife. She might find condoms in my car that I forgot to hide very well, who knows?

Why then did people blame your sister, Yeni, all this while…?
I will never reveal to you why our marriage broke up, but YK (Yeni) definitely was never part of it. YK and I even fought because she advised Funke to take Made along with her, and I said if she takes Made I am in trouble, because I love made and I want him to be with me. All my life was circled around Made, so if Funke had gone with Made maybe I would have committed suicide, because everything in my life in that marriage was based on Made. I saw Made as my inheritor; I saw him as the next Anikulapo to take the music to another level. So, my investment emotionally, financially, everything was stationed on Made. If Funke had left with Made, I didn't have another child, and a politician had already threatened me that what if Made dies? So, I thought that was a threat from the government saying they will kill Made. I was very protective of Made, which was another reason I decided to have other children. What if I lose Made? What will I do? If you check the Anikulapo and Ransome-Kuti families, there are not many boys; everybody is just having girls. So, the only inheritor of the Kuti dynasty was Made. My cousin in America had a girl, Yeni had a girl, others also had girls, and Made was the only boy. I thought of protecting him or else the Anikulapo-Kuti clan will die. Seun also had a girl; the only person that recently had two boys was Kunle. He just had his own boys when Made was already a teenager.

He also opened up about his half brother in Australia...
We heard your father had a son in the US? 
He didn't have a son in the US; it is in Australia.

Have you met him?
Yes.

What is his name?
Couney.

How did he meet you?
I went to play in Sydney and he came to meet me there. That was about four or five years ago.

Did Fela ever tell you about him or how did you know?
Fela told us about one woman that probably got pregnant for him. She told Fela she was pregnant but she disappeared with the pregnancy. Fela now came and told us the story. He (Couney) met my sister on Facebook and told her the same story. And he traced his mother because his mother put him up for adoption, so when he met his mother, she then told him that his father was Fela.

How old is he?
I am a year older than him.

So, he is part of the inheritors of Fela?
Yes, but he doesn't want to be known. He doesn't want anything, he just wants to meet us, and case closed.

He answers Kuti too?
Yes.

Are you not inviting him to Nigeria for a visit?
He will make his decision. He doesn't want much publicity. It was his son who wants to know the family. He has met us, if he wants to go the extra mile that is his business.

What does he do, is he into music?
He is into drawing. I don't know much about him. We talk once in a year. I went to Australia early this month and my sister told him I was there, but he didn't come to meet me because he was busy. Don't forget that 50 years of our lives have passed, where do we want to start the friendship. He is a very nice person. He is probably a Fela's son, we cannot say for sure except there is a DNA to prove it. And to do that, would you have to bring Fela from the grave? But from my perception he looks like Fela.

"Oscar is a liar, he shot my sister in a fit of rage': Reeva's sister says

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 02:59 AM PDT

Oscar Pistorius may be trying to convince the world that he shot his girlfriend in his home by mistake but Reeva's family is not convinced. In fact they are so sure he shot and killed her in a fit of rage during an argument. 

In an exclusive interview with UK Daily Mail today, Reeva's sister Simone (pictured left) says they are in no doubt that Pistorius is a liar.
"He is trying to convince the court that they were really close and that he cared for her. It's not true. He is a disgusting liar. At the start of the trial, my heart stopped as he walked past, ignoring us. I like to think his heart stopped too. He knew we were there but he almost lost his balance and fell over when he saw us.
'Then he sat in the dock, smirking. He killed my sister and yet he still seems to be enjoying his celebrity status. During the adjournments he marched around as if he was still a star while my mother and I just wanted to hide away. I don't understand how anyone could commit that act – kill someone – and behave like that.'
Reeva's mum (left) and sister Simone (right)
To find an outlet for their feelings, the Steenkamps plan to open a shelter in Reeva's memory for women who are victims of domestic abuse. But before that, there are  three more weeks of the trial to endure. 

Simone, 48, who has given up her career and life in England to live with her parents in South Africa since Reeva's death, says the whole family tried to offer forgiveness to Pistorius before the trial began, but that her feelings had changed over the past three weeks.
"It has been such an eye-opener for me,' she says. 'Until I walked into the courtroom it hadn't really hit me that Reeva was dead, that I'll never again see her coming through the door, bouncing around, being in charge of us all like she used to be.
'Sitting there beside my mother in that formal setting, with the whole proceedings aimed at finding the truth about the night she died, I finally took it in and it almost destroyed me. I couldn't go there for more than a day. 
'I wouldn't be able to control my feelings. I would be sobbing, distraught and angry listening to his continuing lies.'
"As the court adjourned for the weekend, the prosecutor Gerrie Nel was in the middle of questioning Pistorius about whether Reeva screamed when he was shooting her. I admire his persistent questioning and he is right to focus on that point,'
"I believe that she was screaming and that he knew it was her he was shooting. I believe they were arguing and that he is an insecure, unpredictable man who might have been thinking he couldn't live without her if the row ended badly.
"So he picked up his gun and shot her in a fit of rage, and now he is lying his head off in the witness box, saying that Reeva didn't scream to let him know she was behind the toilet door. Our Reeva was very vocal, very assertive. Some people might go quiet when something terrible is happening, but not Reeva. She would have screamed. I know she would.
"She was a loving, outgoing girl who always spoke up about her feelings, she didn't hold back. She had lived her life until then in safety and security and would not have felt panicked into silence.'
"Reeva was beautiful and much-loved. She had had few boyfriends and they remained close even after the romance was over. She didn't know anything about volatile relationships and fighting. I can't bear to think of her last moments. It was a terrible shock to see photographs of her head shown to the court.
"And all the time Pistorius is crying and vomiting in front of us. My poor mother somehow has to endure this day after day. She is being so strong while this is breaking her up inside. She feels strongly that she must be there for Reeva.'
Simone says she feels proud of her mother for her calm and dignified presence in the court.
'If I was there I would only upset her by crying and storming out,' she says. 'I could not sit there and listen to him, and sit through all those adjournments because Oscar is tired, Oscar is emotional, Oscar is crying again. Why can't he end this agony for all of us who loved Reeva, and just tell the truth? That's all we want, the end of this trial and some closure at last.
We will never really know why he did it, why he destroyed her life and his own. Nothing will ever be the same for his family or ours, we know that. But now we want it to be over. We'll be so glad when it's over.'
It was in Johannesburg, on the party scene with modelling and show business friends, that Reeva met Pistorius in November 2012 and became his regular girlfriend.

Simone says her family have been astonished at Pistorius's claims that he and Reeva were planning to move in together and that he was buying a house and planning to decorate and furnish it with her.
'She told my mother everything. Why wouldn't she tell her that?' she asks. 'Reeva had only been going out with Pistorius for a short time. Living in England, I didn't even know she was in a relationship with him – that's how new it all was.'
Simone had been asleep at her home in a village in the Cambridgeshire countryside on Valentine's Day morning when she received a phone call from her closest friend in South Africa.
'It was 6am and I was hearing that my little sister had been shot dead. I just froze, I was dazed. I got up and went outside in my pyjamas, shivering from the cold and the shock,' she says. A neighbour called to ask if I was all right and I said I didn't think so. I couldn't stop shivering, then I phoned my mother and began to realise this terrible nightmare was really true.'

Simone worked for Porsche customer services, and had been living happily in England for 13 years.
She said it took her less than an hour to decide she should come home permanently to South Africa.
'Our family is close and loving,' she says. 'My mother had been divorced and was bringing me up alone when she met and married Barry. He has been my dad ever since. I had a happy childhood on a farm with horses in a country town outside Cape Town.
'When I was 18 my mother became pregnant with Reeva. She was my adorable baby sister. I loved her from the first moment. My mother ran a riding school and would be outside with the ponies and kids while I looked after Reeva. The second she cried I would pick her up from her cot and it became a joke in the family – I just wanted to hold her all the time, whether she was crying or not.'
As a toddler, Reeva was Simone's bridesmaid at her wedding. 'She was perfect, and the photograph of us together is something I cherish now more than ever.'

As Reeva grew up she became close to Simone's own two children, boys called Nicholas and Christian, now 26 and 27. They are both devastated by her death.
"We don't want to make a big thing about it,' says Simone. 'We just want to get on with it. My sister's death has been our first experience of domestic violence and we have since learned that four women are killed every day like that in South Africa.
'We are going to provide help and support in a practical way, give women somewhere safe to run to when they are in danger.'
Simone says that, despite her anger towards Pistorius, she has no bitterness towards his relatives.
'No one in our family is bitter or vengeful. Our hearts go out to Aimee and Carl, Pistorius's brother and sister, who sit in court every day.
'They clearly idolised him and I can see they are falling to bits. They didn't kill my sister. I feel nothing but sympathy for them.'
She says that Aimee had come over to her and her mother one day to quietly say sorry, and that Carl had hugged her mother outside  the court, saying: 'I'm so sorry for your loss'.
'He didn't do that for the cameras, and no one was there on that rainy day in the street,' she says. 'His  family is destroyed just as ours is.'
Culled from UK Daily Mail

Killer child-bride speaks: ‘I regret killing my husband, 17 days after wedding

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 02:19 AM PDT

About two weeks ago, a 14 year old teenage girl named Wasila Umaru (pictured above), who was forced into marriage with a 35 year old man, killed the man and three of his friends with rat poison by slipping the poison into their meal during a small wedding party which took place in the northern Ungwar Yansoro village, at Gaya LGA near the city of Kano. (If you missed it, read here)

Wasila now says she regrets killing her husband. The killing happened 17 days after their wedding. Speaking with a Vanguard reporter at Bompai police HQ, Kano, where she is being held, Wasila said;
"Mine was a classical example of youthful exuberance; it dawned on me shortly after that it was a joke taken too far to resolve a forced marriage question. I have never enjoyed the opportunity of going to Islamic school or acquiring Western education. My father forced me into this mess by stubbornly forcing me into a relationship I was not prepared to live in"
"Though my target was my late husband, I must confess that my blood went cold when I realized I had committed mass murder". Continue...
Narrating how she executed the mass murder, she said,
"On the fateful day, my husband's meal was prepared by the senior wife and put in my room as I was due in fulfillment of his rotational duty in a polygamous setting. I obtained the rat poison for just N100 and, at my convenience, mixed it with the local dish prepared for him. When he returned home for the feast, he came with those who were destined to die with him. I was restless but could not stop it from happening.
"I felt normal and slept after the incident but the consequence of my action was clear when I was picked up by the police and I felt cold for the first time".
"Destiny appears to have played a wicked one on me at this early stage of my life and I would rededicate the rest of my life to sincerely seek Allah's forgiveness".
However, despite the overwhelming evidence the police have to prosecute the alleged culpable homicide, they seemed to be in a dilemma due to age of the suspect.

Commenting on the development, Kano State Police Command Public Relations  Officer, ASP Magaji Musa Majia, said "the case has been referred to appropriate authorities  for the next line of action". Majia told Sunday Vanguard: "I am assuring you that Wasila would appear in court soon because we have limitation on the number of days we can keep a suspect no matter the perceived weakness of the case or the personality involved".
- See more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/04/killer-child-bride-speaks-regret-killing-husband-17-days-wedding/#sthash.qzGBt6en.dpuf

More photos from Half Of A Yellow Sun premiere

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 01:39 AM PDT

Of course I was there to see my boo, but my bodyguards wouldn't let him come near me..and there was really nothing I could do about it. All he could do was wave from afar..*sigh*...lol

Beautiful movie, by the way. And fantastic acting! Continue to see more photos from the premiere.

 Biola Alabi and Bolanle Olukanni

Chimamanda Adichie and Ebi Atawodi


 Right, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi and Yewande Sadiku (Executive producer)

Layole Oyatogun and Yewande Sadiku with Mosun Ogunbanjo

Emem Ema and Lara George

Mr and Mrs Labi Ogunbiyi and Mr and Mrs Gbenga Oyebode

Mrs Kene Mkparu and Naya Amobi

Jimi Sonuga and Muhtar Bakare

Omoye and Onyeka Onwenu

Ozy Sammie Okposo and Mrs Taiwo Ajai-Lycett

 Tokini Peterside and Yewande Sadiku with Reni Folawiyo

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Chiwetel, Andrea Calderwood (producer) and Biyi Bandele (director)

Koga Entertainment Presents - Skinnie Tweed

Posted: 13 Apr 2014 01:16 AM PDT

Koga Entertainment is on a roll! The entertainment powerhouse has unveiled the third artiste signed to the newly found record label " Koga Records"- Skinnie Tweed, who happens to be the second runner up at last Koga Open House talent hunt competition

Skinnie makes a debut with Funky Party and Chairman i hail o. Both tracks produced in Koga Studios by Puffy T and in house producer Coded.

http://www.kogastudios.com/images/stories/songs/Funky%20party.mp3 « Funky party link

Guests at GEJ's daughter's wedding received customized iPhones

Posted: 12 Apr 2014 02:21 PM PDT

Luxury designer Malivelihood posted samples of some of the gifts guests received at President Jonathan's daughter's wedding which took place in Abuja today. One of the gifts was a gold-plated iPhone. What were those Youth Movement people saying again? Lol. Continue to see more photos...



First photos from Half Of A Yellow Sun premiere

Posted: 12 Apr 2014 01:21 PM PDT

The Nigerian premiere of Half Of A Yellow Sun took place this evening at Silverbird Galeria. Above are Chiwetel Ejiofor and Genevieve Nnaji. Continue to see more photos...



 
Cast of the movie, O.C Ukeje, Chiwetel, Genevieve, Gloria Young, director and writer of the movie Biyi Bandele and Chimamanda Adichie...

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