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Welcome to Linda Ikeji's Blog

Emir of Gombe, Alh (Dr) Shehu Abubakar passes on

Posted: 27 May 2014 01:59 PM PDT

The Emir of Gombe, Alhaji (Dr.) Usman Shehu Abubakar, has passed on. He died this evening, May 27th after a long battle with cancer at the Royal Marsden Hospital, Fulham Road, London.
The Secretary to the Gombe State Government, Abubakar Bage confirmed his passing in a press statement released this evening. Family sources say his body will be flown back to Nigeria tomorrow, May 28th to be buried according to Islamic rights.

The Late Emir before his demise was the chairman of the Gombe State Council of Traditional Rulers and had been on the throne since January 1984. May his soul rest in peace... Amen.

'I can't deliver your letter to Boko Haram leader' - First Lady tells kids

Posted: 27 May 2014 01:48 PM PDT

Some Nigerian children who paid a courtesy visit to First Lady Patience Jonathan today in Abuja to mark the Children's Day celebration seized the opportunity to hand her letters they wrote to Boko Haram leader, Abubakar Shekau protesting the abduction of the Chibok girls and asked the First Lady to pass the letter to him.
Mama Peace received the letter but immediately told the children that she doesn't know who Shekau is but would give their letters to the Chief of Defence Staff who would help deliver it accordingly..
"Let me thank the children that gave me letter to give Boko Haram. Well, I have received your letter, but I'm not the one to give it to Boko Haram because I don't know Boko Haram and I have never seen Boko Haram. But I will give it to NSA or Chief of Defence Staff who will submit your letter accordingly. To my children parliament, thank you for your letter. Thank you for your deliberation. I have received what you gave to me. I will make sure I pass it to the president because it is addressed to him and the other one is addressed to Boko Haram. That is why the two are different." she said
Mama Peace advised the children and Nigerians in general to desist from speaking evil or reigning abuses on the President, saying he is the head of the country as God has made him so. She drew her advice from the bible
"It is bad to abuse our country and the president because God has made him the head. The almighty God commands us to pray for our leaders. We therefore need to pray for the development of our country and the president.
Remember that a child that abuses his father and mother is disobeying God's commandment because the bible says in Exodus 20:12 that you should honour your father and mother so that you may live long in the land that the Lord your God has given you. The holy Bible is not referring to only biological parents. Any one that is older than you even for a day must be respected. Let us therefore join hands and rebuild our country Nigeria" she advised

Ozzy Bosco lands LAWMA ambassadorship, releases theme song 'Keep Lagos Clean'

Posted: 27 May 2014 01:49 PM PDT

The Wonderkd "OzzyBosco" is on another level! This time, the sensational kid artiste is here for a fantastic reason and it's a special gift for the children on their day. It is a mind-blowing song by the 7yrold kid OzzyBosco titled "Keep Lagos Clean" the official theme song for the Lagos State Cleanliness Revolution campaign.
 
In an era where it has become customary for corporate players to use celebrities to drive their brands to consumers, one such organization that has deeply looked inwards for a truly value-adding relationship with a celebrity artiste is LAWMA. Continue...
 

The Lagos State Waste Management Authority (LAWMA) led by the Managing Director, Mr Ola Oresanya on Monday 5th May 2014 endorsed the kid dynamite; OzzyBosco Wonderkid as her Brand Ambassador. The artiste is to use his vantage position as African's number 1 kid star to complement their environmental cleanliness drive through his pet project  "KEEP LAGOS CLEAN" Cleanliness Revolution …children Lead, Adults Follow; a cleanliness campaign which targets children within Lagos and its environ.  
 

OzzyBosco and Lagos State children are about to swing into action in a cleanliness campaign tagged "Keep Lagos Clean". His primary assignment is to carry along our younger generations to inculcate in them a deep-rooted sense of responsibility towards cleanliness in their homes, schools and public places. Guided by their idol OzzyBosco Wonderkid, they will serve as Change Agents in the on-going fight against filth and environmental pollution in Lagos State.
 
OzzyBosco will also be partnering with the Local Governments and Local Council Development Areas (LCDA), which would ensure that schools and children in their locality participate fully in the campaign exercise. The communities within the Local Government Area in focus shall be selected at random and replicated in allthe LGAs and LCDAs in Lagos State.
 

LAWMA endorsement makes it the second brand ambassadorial appointment for the "Tinini"crooner in about six months, having been made "Tigo Milk Brand Ambassador" (CWAY Foods and Beverages) only a few months ago.
 
It is worthy of note that OzzyB won the Kids Got Talent Competition at the tender age of four in November 2011 and has since continued to amaze the entertainment industry with his stage craft, record- breaking achievements and steadfastness; making him the most vibrant kid artiste in Africa.
 
Last summer, he became the first and only artiste to sponsor 14 children (mainly orphans) on a one-week all-expense paid educational and fun filled holiday to Tinapa, Cross River State where they were warmly received by the State Government (31st August – 6th September, 2013).
And despite being a full time pupil, he has to date done 128 well-recorded scintillating stage performances in 2½ years, carted home 16 reputable awards and 2 ambassadorial endorsements. On the high point, OzzyBosco, witnessed and cheered by a mammoth crowd became the youngest in the industry to receive the exclusive chieftaincy title of "OMENANWATA IGBO" (A Young Achiever) from the Igbo High Chiefs in Lagos State. The awesome event, which saw some political Stalwarts like; Alhaji Bamanga Tukur (CON), his wife, as well as other top dignitaries physically receive chieftaincy titles, became a high point in the entertainment journey of this unstoppable child star. 

Enjoy the official theme song for the campaign recorded by OzzyBosco tagged "KEEP LAGOS CLEAN". Please be on the look out for his next official single "YOU REIGN" featuring the Mid-Nite Crew and Dr Tee Mac (MFR). Happy Children's Day!!!  @ozzybosco 

AUDIO:- HULKAHARE LINK: http://www.hulkshare.com/9nb9s6fnh7nk

This runner fell & did the most amazing thing that stunned the crowd

Posted: 27 May 2014 01:26 PM PDT

Heather Dorniden was leading a 600 meter race with one lap to go when she suddenly tripped and fell to last place. What she did next shook the entire crowd, and you're about to see why. Watch and be inspired!


Never give up!

Boko Haram attacks Nigerian military base, 24 personnel feared killed

Posted: 27 May 2014 12:36 PM PDT

BBC reports that gunmen suspected to be members of Boko Haram this evening around 5pm attacked a security base in Buni Yadi, in Gujba LGA killing 24 officials. Residents of the area said the victims include 13 soldiers and 11 police officers and said the gunmen came in 10 Hilux vans, an armoured tank, and several motorcycles.

BBC Hausa Service reports that the gunmen told residents of the area to stay indoors as their target were the security personnel in the town.

The men then proceeded to attack the military base, a local government secretariat and burnt down several buildings.

Sudanese woman facing death for apostasy gives birth in prison

Posted: 27 May 2014 11:49 AM PDT

The Sudanese Christian woman, Meriam Yahia Ibrahim Ishag, who was sentenced to death by hanging on May 15th for committing Apostasy, (renouncing ones faith or religion), has given birth to a baby girl in prison. Her husband, Daniel Wani made this known today when he spoke with AFP.
 
Meriam was heavily pregnant when she was sentenced and taken to the women's prison in Khartoum's twin city of Omdurman. According to BBC, she would be allowed to nurse her new baby for two years before the execution is carried out. Meriam's 2year old son is also in the prison with her

Casual to formal with MRP!

Posted: 27 May 2014 01:34 PM PDT

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When you order online, the MRP courier will contact you to make delivery arrangements. You can pay by cash or card upon delivery and, if you do need to return your order, you can do so no problem.

You can find MRP stores in Abuja, Ibadan, Ikeja and Surulere and there will be four new stores opening soon.

Boko Haram takes over Borno villages, kills 9, hoists flag

Posted: 27 May 2014 09:37 AM PDT

According to a report by Premium Times, suspected Boko Haram men yesterday May 26th attacked villages in the rocky mountains of Gwoza town of Borno State, killing 9 villagers and setting various houses and churches in the area ablaze. Reports say the men hoisted their flag at Ashigashiya ward of Gwoza LGA, a place they now claim is their headquarters.
 
Speaking to newsmen, a local government official, Nglamuda Ibrahim confirmed the incident and said that some of the villagers with bullet wounds are currently taking refuge at the top of the mountains. He said no help, either from the police or military has come to those that were injured since the attack and that the sect men are believed to be preparing for a second attack. Continue...

"As we speak now, I am still receiving distress calls from them, they were all crying and calling for help; no soldier or police official had gone there yet. The Boko Haram gunmen mounted their flags in Ashigashiya which is now like their headquarters. In last night's attack, six churches were burnt, eight persons were killed and several others seriously injured. We cannot count the number of houses that were burnt in Chinene village of Chikide-Joghode-Kaghum ward. They also attacked Amuda village where one person was killed and several others injured. As I am talking to you now, the insurgents have mobilised at Izhaghathagwa mountain, planning on how to finish (kill) our people; that is why they have been calling for help before the gunmen climb up to them. We are calling on the military authorities in the state to quickly go up there and help us rescue those poor villagers, their wives and children before the imminent danger of the gunmen attack caught them up in the mountains," he said. "We have a detachment of soldiers that were deployed to Gwoza but none of them cares to go behind the mountains, even though everyone hears the sound of the shootings there" he said
Ibrahim gave the names of some of those killed in Chinene village as Bulama Dajiba, Bulama John, Haruna Wadda, Bitrus Kurma, Haruna Kwatha, Haruna Waruda, and Shaibu Galva.
 
Meanwhile a military personnel who spoke anonymously to Premium Times said the flag hoisting took place in Ashigashiya village three weeks ago. He said the Military has been informed about yesterday's attack.

"Starting Oceanic Bank was my late mum's idea"- Elvina Ibru reveals

Posted: 27 May 2014 08:04 AM PDT

Elvina Ibru, one of the daughters of billionaire businessman Olorogun Michael Ibru, has revealed that starting the now defunct Oceanic Bank was her late mum's idea. Mrs Elsie Ibru was the first female bank manager in Nigeria who worked with the defunct African Continental Bank (ACB) and with her experience in the banking sector adviced her husband to start up a bank. She said her father took the advice but unfortunately, her mum passed away when the bank was about to be opened.
"My mother was a banker back in the 60s. She worked for the defunct African Continental Bank (ACB). She was the first female bank manager in Nigeria and then my father is a man of foresight, he foresaw everything and arranged the company. The idea of setting up a bank was by my mother who advised my father to start one. That's how Oceanic Bank came up and unfortunately when the bank was to open she passed on. My mother was brilliant, my father is brilliant. I guess I picked up the interest in entertainment from them. The unity of two brains exploded to become what is today known as the Ibru organization" she said
Late Mrs Elsie Ibru died on February 3rd 1990 while Oceanic Bank was incorporated in March 1990 and began operation in July1990.

Photos: D'banj hangs out with the big boys in Monaco

Posted: 27 May 2014 08:01 AM PDT

Dbanj is currently in Monaco to watch the Formula 1 Grand Prix & is seen balling with international stars including Newcastle United's manager Alan Pardew (pictured with him above)UK rapper Tinnie Tempah and UK singer Labyrinth. Continue to see more photos...




D'banj seen chilling in a yacht
 
With Labyrinth
 With Tinnie Tempeh

TKM Essentials opens for business

Posted: 27 May 2014 07:59 AM PDT

Princess Teni Aofiyebi, veteran actress, broadcaster, educationist and entrepreneur, birthed a new business, TKM Essentials on Friday 16th of May 2014. The official opening of the outfit was at 25, Raufu Williams Crescent, Surulere. The First Lady of Lagos State, Mrs Dame Emmanuella Abimbola Fashola was the special guest of honour and declared the business open with host of other important guests. Continue...


She has imported some of the finest quality products in the industry like 3D-legged tables with multi coloured LED light base, coffee table with LED base, crafted acrylic benches, smoke machines, multi coloured LED dance floor, classy cutlery set and many other items which are available for all event decorators, planners and discerning members of the society to rent and use in creating their peculiar, unique and spectacular events that Nigerians are well known for.

For rentals call: +234 805 530 2388 or visit www.tkmessentials.com/

Kim in 2011 vs Kim in 2014: Which wedding look do you prefer?

Posted: 27 May 2014 07:05 AM PDT

For her fairytale wedding to NBA star Kris Humphries in Montecito, California on August 20 2011, Kim K wore a beautiful Vera Wang dress and wore her hair in an updo with a tiara. (Pictured left). For her wedding to Kanye West on May 24th 2014, Kim K wore a Givenchy wedding dress and wore her hair in a half-up, half-down style. Two totally different looks. Which do you prefer? Continue...

Photos: Doctors protest at FMC Owerri over unpaid wages

Posted: 27 May 2014 06:34 AM PDT

Doctors at Federal Medical Centre Owerri today protested over unpaid wages and said they will soon embark on indefinite strike. The doctors complained that the FMC management has formed a habit of not paying salaries and entitlements, and with so many deductions when they eventually pay.

Someone in the know said the residents haven't been paid September 2013 salary. The house officers who worked for 3 months received payment for only two months with so many deductions. They say this is not fair considering the health hazards they are exposed to on a daily basis and the fact that they are always away from their families on call only to have their salaries cut in half. See more pics from the protest after the cut...

See first official photos from Kim and Kanye's wedding

Posted: 27 May 2014 05:49 AM PDT

E! just released some pics from Kim and Kanye's extravagant wedding which held this past Saturday May 24th in Italy. Kim's Givenchy wedding dress is so beautiful but the dress she wore to marry Kris Humphries in 2011 was heavenly. See more photos after the cut...

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Posted: 27 May 2014 05:42 AM PDT

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Photo: Ex-governor Peter Obi in India to visit Prof. Dora Akunyili

Posted: 27 May 2014 05:38 AM PDT

Find a statement posted on Professor Dora Akunyili's Facebook page below
Immediate past Governor of Anambra State, Mr. Peter Obi, is presently in India on a visit to see former Minister of Information and Communications, Prof. Dora Akunyili, who is receiving treatment in the country. Mr. Obi left for India yesterday in company of his media aide, Mr. Valentine Obienyem. The two men confirmed in a message from India that Prof. Akunyili is responding to treatment and that her situation is nothing near the scary picture being painted by rumour mongers.
Prof. Dora Akunyili's husband, Dr. Chike Akunyili, confirmed to me on phone this morning that Messrs Obi and Obienyem are with them in the hospital. "We are very happy to see them. We are even happier that they have volunteered to spend the entire day with us before returning home to Nigeria," Dr. Akunyili said. He also expressed appreciation to Nigerians, saying: "We can never thank Nigerians enough; their prayers are working."

The attached photo shows Ex-Governor Obi discussing with the doctors treating Dora, while her husband watches. Below is an e-mail sent from India this morning by Obienyem:
"Brother Isaac, I am sending this mail from the hospital where our beloved Prof. Dora Akunyili is being treated. At the moment, her husband, Dr. Chike Akunyili, Mr. Peter Obi and the team of Doctors treating her are rubbing minds.

"While Doctors at the Indian hospital are explaining what they are doing and how tremendously she has improved; Dr. Chike Akunyili thanked them for their commitment to duty. He also expressed gratitude to Nigerians for the outpouring of love showered on his wife. Mr. Obi emphasised the need for Indians to come and set up facilities in Nigeria and for Nigerian Doctors to also show commitment to expanding the health facilities in Nigeria through strategic investment. Though the Doctors said they come to the country now and then, they agreed on the need to consider what Obi said seriously. They promised to keep communications open.

"Obi thanked God for the tremendous improvement of Prof. Akunyili and said the reality he saw was the direct opposite of the grim picture some people painted about her condition. He prayed to God to grant her total healing.

"In Nigeria, it is common for Nigerians to express secret and sometimes open excitement whenever any highly placed Nigerian suffer. They see it as delayed punishment for the iniquities they foisted on the nation. Prof. Dora Akunyili is different. Since the news of her sickness was broken, the entire nation has been crying and praying for her to be healed. Even on social networks, you see people's writings dripping with tears for a woman who showed the nation what service in the truest sense of the word means.

"Nigerians as a people suffer from forgetfulness that is inexplicable. We forget people's deeds so easily. Again, Dora is different. The pervasiveness of her good work ensured that it is etched permanently in the psyches of our people. Who in Nigeria today has forgotten the trauma – attacks upon attacks – that Dora was faced with simply for doing what was best for Nigeria and humanity?
"I understand that since being in the hospital, Nigerians in India have turned the hospital into a Mecca of sort. Daily they visit to pray for her recovery. I understand that the Nigerian Ambassador to India came calling yesterday.

"Meanwhile, Mr. Obi and the team of Doctors are discussing many subjects. Having finished with health, the secret of the development of the health institution and the part the Government is playing, he is busy asking them the secret of the development of Karnataka, the State in India, where Bangalore city/town is located. He wants to know the secret behind the development in infrastructure, education, social services, among others as to compare note with what are witnessed in Nigeria."
Isaac Umunna
Media Adviser to Prof. Dora Akunyili
Lagos, May 27, 2014

Ondo State House of Assembly Elects First Female Speaker

Posted: 27 May 2014 11:52 AM PDT

Members of the Ondo State House of Assembly this morning May 27th elected Ms Jumoke Akindele  representing Okitipupa constituency II as the new speaker of the State Assembly. Pulling 13 votes, Ms Akindele who is a trained lawyer emerged speaker after the election. She was Chairman, House Committee on Education in the house before her recent election.
The former speaker, Mr Samuel Adeshina Ajayi lost his battle to cancer in Feb 25th 2014 making the seat vacant for new leadership.

Photo of the day: Pope hugging a Muslim Cleric and a Jewish priest

Posted: 27 May 2014 07:19 AM PDT

Pope Francis seen in a warm embrace with Jewish Rabbi (Abraham Skorka) & Muslim Iman (Omar Abboud) at the Western 'wailing' wall of Jerusalem during his state visit to Jerusalem recently. This Pope is phenomenal.

Jumia Independent Sales Consultant now recruiting in Port-Harcourt

Posted: 27 May 2014 04:46 AM PDT

Jumia Nigeria promotes Entrepreneurship with an amazing opportunity to build your own business with a fast growing global organization; you get to run your own business with unlimited income!

As Jumia Nigeria's Independent Sales Consultant Scheme rapidly expands, the organization is looking to recruit young vibrant people into its force, who have an unrelenting passion for financial freedom. Continue...
 

The Independent consultant scheme is an avenue for people to make more money for themselves by just being entrepreneurs through Jumia. It is an open ground for students, housewives and the unemployed who want to be financially independent, network with people and enter the world of online retail at little or no cost.

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Ailing Nollywood filmmaker, Chike Bryan gets N10m grant from GEJ

Posted: 27 May 2014 04:36 AM PDT

Ailing Nollywood movie producer and current National President of Script Writers Guild of Nigeria (SWGN), Chike Bryan, who was diagnosed with kidney failure in July 2013 has received a N10m support from President Jonathan for his kidney transplant in India, Encomium magazine reports.

The President's support was made known to him by the Actors Guild of Nigeria (AGN) President, Ibinanabo Fiberisima at the AMAA awards in Bayelsa State over the weekend.
 
Acknowledging the support, Mr Bryan thanked the President as well as Ibinabo Fiberisima who helped to facilitate it in her capacity as the AGN President. Continue...

In a telephone interview with Encomium magazine, Ibinabo thanked the president for the kind gesture and promised to do more for other artistes in similar conditions.
"You are aware that a member of Nollywood, Chike Bryan, has been sick for a while now. Fortunately, President Goodluck Jonathan has given him some money to take care of himself and we have to appreciate him for always being their for us" she said
Chike Bryan was diagnosed with chronic renal failure in July 2013 and has been undergoing dialysis at Igando General Hospital, Lagos. He will now proceed to India for intensive medical care.

Check out Timi Dakolo's plea to his 6 month old daughter...lol

Posted: 27 May 2014 04:30 AM PDT

 Na real major share holder...lol

Kanu Nwankwo sends special shoutout as his wife turns a year older

Posted: 27 May 2014 04:13 AM PDT

Kanu's wife of 10 years, Amarachi Kanu, turned a year older today May 27th. Happy birthday to her!

The final Johnnie Walker ‘BMW’ showdown happening at the Grand Square Lagos

Posted: 27 May 2014 04:03 AM PDT

Johnnie Walker has so far given out four awesome BMW cars this year and plan to give away more.

Enugu, Abuja and Port-Harcourt have witnessed these awesome give-aways, now it's time for Lagos to Step Up to the VIP Lifestyle as the 5th BMW X3 will be given out to a lucky consumer. 

Grand Square, VI will be buzzing this Thursday, 29thMay by 4pm, as the final draw takes centre stage, so if you are within the vicinity, you can grace the occasion and participate. Continue...
 
If you want to be the fifth winner of this awesome BMW X3, just purchase two bottles 70cl  Johnnie Walker, collect your raffle ticket and you just might go home with a brand new BMW X3.  iPhones, ipads and other gift items will also be won at the venue.  Check out some pictures of the lucky winners below....

 

German website publishes pic of Kate Middleton's bare bottom

Posted: 27 May 2014 03:53 AM PDT

A German newspaper - Bild today published the bare butt of the Duchess of Cambridge, Kate Middleton, which will no doubt attract the wrath of the royal family. The picture was taken during Kate and her husband Prince William's recent tour of Australia when a gust of wind briefly caught her dress. Of course the British media reported it but didn't carry the uncensored pic. Hehe...I'm not British..lol so check on the uncensored pic after the cut...

Regina Askia writes on the Nigerian woman and societal pressure

Posted: 27 May 2014 01:26 AM PDT

Former beauty queen/actress Regina Askia Williams wrote an interesting piece about the Nigerian woman and the societal pressures and demands placed on her and shared it on her Facebook page. It's an interesting read. Find it below...
I just read a social media fight between two people I know and I chuckle to myself because my friend was blowing some hot words there - she was really vexed. Reading through the literary missiles, a few questions came to mind. Why is it that, generally when Nigerians fight their profanity centers around a woman's marital status, her age and to top off the insults, her private parts? Are these the yardsticks that we measure our women by? The marital status thing. Does it mean when a woman is not married she has no identity, she is less of a person or what? For a Nigerian woman to get any type of respect there has to be a man in the picture in what ever capacity? So it does not matter if you are wife number 6 at least you are wife? There is a vulgar saying that goes "Toto wey nobody get, na everybody get am". For real? That pretty much means that a woman unattached is nothing but a mobile body part that anyone can do anything to or with.....chaaii!!
And so begins the race where mothers groom and condition their daughters to believe that their ultimate duty on Gods earth is to "find a man and born for am". I have often listened to educated folks down so much on women with comments like "They should have no say, after all they are going to get married off", Women think with their butts not their heads and my respect meter for them swings all the way dooownnn!! When we have more respect for our women we will begin to do better as a society. If you want to know the quality of men in any society look at how the women of that society are being treated. Of course its not all Nigerians but there's too many with this notion and something must be said.
The age factor. - Another sexist point of view. With notion of the one goal she must accomplish , the female now believes young and juicy is preference especially if you are at the other side of the biological clock and still have not found a man. So some of my soul sisters have designed a calibration where at 30. birthdays are celebrated every 3 years and at 40 every 4 years. Meaning if you are 30 you will turn 31 after 3 years ......so instead of kicking the other side of 40s with me my friends are mostly still 38. Where we could have fabulous and very accomplished women, celebrating milestones, sharing wisdom of lessons learned over the years, we have we see strong women dumbing down, hiding behind numbers, and an arsenal of paraphernalia that will ensure they don't get old. Look at any photographs of big chicks at any event, we all look bothered. Why? Shoes are biting, wigs are squeezing, body magic trying to snuff out the last breath. Sometimes we are dropping body parts, nails dropping , eye lashes hanging........Lord have mercy. Check out the Louboutins, Louis Vuittons, Micheal Kors, name them, all in competition with the other as we live out social constructs designed to forever keep us mentally emotionally and even physically impoverished (How? Story for another day). We need to love and accept ourselves.
Finally, the woman's private parts. The immediate way to gauge a persons mental quality is how he talks about a woman. It has nothing to with swag, bragado or just being a bad boy, a man who refers to a woman as a body part is quite simply an iIDIOT no if , ands, or buts, just keep it moving. I find it very disturbing that of the myriad of problems in Nigeria, there recently was a move to put in the constitution the legality of underage marriage as opposed to making laws against pedophiles. Its disturbing that what an individual decides to do with their private parts became a matter of national debate and outcry but HIV, malaria, food shortage and Ebola (currently knocking on our doors) are decimating the populace. These attitudes and perceptions of put out or shut up, money for hand back for ground are slowly turning our princess daughters into sex slaves, our turning our sisters and mothers into glorified prostitutes. If you have ever watched a pack of animals - you notice that they eat, fight, mate and sleep. The more highly evolved the animal in question the more organized their activities and interactions with group members. If this is our national psyche, then the women of Nigeria have a long road to walk because we must declare this consciousness unacceptable. This is not who we are and we can do better. We must point our daughters towards higher ideals and goals. We need a mind reorientation and perception which must begin with an honest look at the person in the mirror. Our men must once again learn to respect womanhood. Merit ought to take its place once again. Lets us as a people rise again. Where do we start??

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